Skip to content
Real Life Skyline Church
Plan A Visit

How Was Mary a Virgin?

Take the test

Let's Explore the Answer

It may come as a surprise to know, that while Mary, the mother of Jesus, was highly favored by God, she was an ordinary Jewish girl raised in the town of Nazareth. The most extraordinary thing about her life was that she was chosen to conceive the Messiah by the power of the Holy Spirit. And Mary remained a virgin until after Jesus’ birth.

While this might be difficult to believe, it’s an important element of the Christian life. After all, this miraculous event fulfilled Old Testament prophecies - prophecies that were written hundreds of years before Jesus was born.

So, how was Mary a virgin? And why is it so important to the Christian faith? There’s much debate over the validity of Mary’s virginity and many skeptics deny that it was even possible. Let’s see what both skeptics and atheists have to say before we look at what the Bible says.

A Safe Place For Questions

We know you might have a lot of questions when trying a new church. We want you to feel welcome and comfortable and at ease when you join us in person. Click here to learn more about what you can expect.

Plan A Visit

What Skeptics & Atheists Say

Because Mary was engaged to a man named Joseph, many skeptics insist that Jesus had to have been Joseph’s biological son. Some even claim that the Bible validates their belief, as Joseph is mentioned in the lineage of Jesus in Matthew chapter one. However, upon closer study, the inclusion of Joseph in the genealogy is simply to point to the lineage of David, from which Christ Jesus was born.

Atheists, who deny the deity of Jesus, often view the account of the virgin birth nothing but a superstitious story. They struggle to see the importance of Mary’s virginity because they don’t believe Jesus was anything other than an ordinary man.

Understandably, people question how it was even possible for a virgin to conceive, bear a child, and still remain a virgin. Our human understanding of God’s miracles is limited and often causes us to doubt God’s ways. However, the answer lies in the text of the Bible, which we’ll explore next.

Watch Online

You can always check out a message online. Join us for a live streaming service or watch our sermon messages on demand at your own convenience.

Watch Online

What The Bible Says

The Bible says in Luke 1:26-28 “Now in the sixth month the angel Gabriel was sent by God to a city of Galilee named Nazareth, to a virgin betrothed to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David. The virgin’s name was Mary. And having come in, the angel said to her, ‘Rejoice, highly favored one, the Lord is with you; blessed are you among women!’”

Mary’s response indicated she was completely surprised, and even frightened by the angel’s visit, as recorded in Luke 1:29. “When she saw him, she was troubled at his saying, and considered what manner of greeting this was.”

As the angel revealed to her that she would “conceive and bring forth a Son, and call His name Jesus,” Mary questioned how it was even possible since she had never been with a man intimately. The angel’s answer confirmed what’d been foretold by the prophets: “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Highest will overshadow you; therefore, also, that Holy One who is to be born will be called the Son of God.” (Luke 1:35)

By the will of God and the power of the Holy Spirit, Mary remained a virgin until after Jesus was born. Perhaps the virgin birth of the Messiah isn’t as far-fetched as some people believe it to be. Instead, it’s a beautiful representation of a miraculous God who works through ordinary people to accomplish His divine purpose.

What would happen if you embraced the possibility that the God of the Bible really did create the world and really does care for you?

Meet New People

As human beings, we’re all born with an innate need to know others and to be known. Having healthy relationships is essential to having a full and satisfying life, but not everyone has the kind of positive, supportive, and meaningful relationships they need. Many people are even uncomfortable with the process of meeting new people and making new friends.

We believe that life is better lived in an authentic community of people who appreciate the connection to others, we’ve created a variety of environments that make it easy for you to meet new people and initiate new relationships. Regardless of where you are on your faith journey, you’re welcome to explore, learn and grow with us.

Meet People

Pascal's Wager

In the seventeenth century, a famous philosopher and mathematician, Blaise Pascal, encouraged people to make a wager when it came to belief in God. If a person chose to believe in God and God did exist, that person would gain everything (eternal life). If a person chose to believe in God and God did not exist, that person would lose nothing. On the other hand, if a person chose not to believe in God and he was right, he would lose nothing. But if that person did not believe in God and he was wrong- he would lose everything (lose eternal life).

This wager can be said another way:

Based on this logic, Pascal suggested the rational person would choose to believe in God as believing offers a person everything (eternal life) while losing nothing. Wherever you are in your faith journey, would you consider taking Pascal’s wager? If the good God of the Bible exists, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain by believing in Him today.

Real Life Skyline Church
11330 Campo Rd. La Mesa, CA 91941
Tel: 619-660-5000

Request a Prayer

Life can feel truly overwhelming for everyone at times, which is why people so often use prayer - or simply put, a conversation with God - to ask for hope, strength, guidance, or circumstantial change in difficult times. "Putting it in God’s hands" when we’re facing any number of obstacles can provide great comfort and peace in a world that we know is out of our own control.

The Bible teaches us that prayer is powerful and effective, both in communicating with God and in bringing peace to those who pray. We consider it an honor to be able to talk personally with the God who created us, with confidence that He listens and cares. No matter your faith background, and whatever the challenges you’re facing, we’re eager to pray for you, your family members, or any of your loved ones. There’s nothing we’d love more than to present your requests to God and pray with you.

Prayer Request
Home | Privacy Policy | ©2025 Website By Missional Marketing